A Brief Reflection on Bravery, Cowardice and Love — I have been called many, many names over the last few years based on the subject material that I have chosen to write about. Some have even called me brave for taking on the difficult subject of infidelity, trying to own it and tell my story. I’ve been thinking about…

I Celebrated By Feeling Sorry For Myself — I’ve never been a big one for “Hallmark” holidays, but also admit I’ve still always celebrated them. The way I have always looked at these “holidays” was that these people we were celebrating, mother’s, father’s, partner’s, grandparent’s, etc. were people we probably should be celebrating everyday, but we live in…

Is It True That Statistics Don’t Lie When It Comes To Surviving Infidelity? — Found it — there was a quote from the movie Avatar that I was looking for and finally found where Neytiri saved Jake from some of the woodland creatures and he was thanking her, but she turned to him and said, “no thank, this is sad, very sad only”. That’s…

Yes, Apparently My Dad Is “That Guy” — It’s just about 9am in the morning and I get a text message from my mom addressed to the group chat we have with her and my two sisters. The text read as follows… “Just got a call from you Dad. …

The Power Of Three Little Words — You can choose to surrender to love or not, but in the end, love strikes like lightning: unpredictable and irrefutable. — Deborah Anapol Ph.D. What can I say, the moment felt right, the feelings were all there, I’ve danced around it long enough, it was time to finally say it!! …

When The Promises We Make Become The Promises We Break — It was more than 22 years ago, but I still remember the day like it was yesterday. I remember standing on the altar as her dad walked her down the aisle. I remember how beautiful she looked in her dress and how very much in love we had been, as…

I Set My Marriage On This Path Towards Destruction — It’s just around 10am, and I find myself sitting here at my laptop writing this article when I really should be getting ready for a meeting at work this afternoon. For the past 90 minutes, I’ve been staring at a computer screen with simply no motivation to do any work…

As the pandemic started, so did our love affair — Originally written in Spring of 2020 — this was towards the beginning of my extramarital affair — as we shifted from an online emotional connection to an in-person physical one. I have often been told that my affair was all about being in a state of euphoria, excitement, lust, and…

“If we’re going to say goodbye, it’s not going to be today.” — For those that follow me — yes I am taking you down memory lane a bit these last few days as I repost some content that I had written a few years back during the ebbs and flows of my extramarital relationship. I’m so tired of everyone that hears about…