Yes, Apparently My Dad Is “That Guy” — It’s just about 9am in the morning and I get a text message from my mom addressed to the group chat we have with her and my two sisters. The text read as follows… “Just got a call from you Dad. …

The Power Of Three Little Words — You can choose to surrender to love or not, but in the end, love strikes like lightning: unpredictable and irrefutable. — Deborah Anapol Ph.D. What can I say, the moment felt right, the feelings were all there, I’ve danced around it long enough, it was time to finally say it!! …

When The Promises We Make Become The Promises We Break — It was more than 22 years ago, but I still remember the day like it was yesterday. I remember standing on the altar as her dad walked her down the aisle. I remember how beautiful she looked in her dress and how very much in love we had been, as…

I Set My Marriage On This Path Towards Destruction — It’s just around 10am, and I find myself sitting here at my laptop writing this article when I really should be getting ready for a meeting at work this afternoon. For the past 90 minutes, I’ve been staring at a computer screen with simply no motivation to do any work…

As the pandemic started, so did our love affair — Originally written in Spring of 2020 — this was towards the beginning of my extramarital affair — as we shifted from an online emotional connection to an in-person physical one. I have often been told that my affair was all about being in a state of euphoria, excitement, lust, and…

“If we’re going to say goodbye, it’s not going to be today.” — For those that follow me — yes I am taking you down memory lane a bit these last few days as I repost some content that I had written a few years back during the ebbs and flows of my extramarital relationship. I’m so tired of everyone that hears about…

How could I not regret losing someone that fit so perfectly in my heart? — It’s interesting revisiting some of my writings from the past few years. This one was written back in December 2020 after a misinterpreted email turned into what would be our 4th breakup (although along the way as each “breakup” seemed to span maybe 48–72 hours tops I started just classifying…

How I Struggled With Feelings of Hopelessness and Despair — I’ve been spending a great deal of time of late going back over much of what I had written over the last few years in an effort to better understand where my head was at as I struggled with what I now realize was deep depression and anxiety and to…